After 12 years of marriage my husband confessed he wants to share me with strangers. At first I was totally taken back by it, after all I figured he would want to be with another woman as a fantasy.
We were just talking about different fantasies and thoughts when he brought this out but he said he really wants to do it.
I have never even considered cheating on him but he insists that it is not cheating if he is okay with it, joins in and watches. So basically I don’t know what to do. On one hand I want him to be sexually satisfied but I don’t want to ruin my marriage over some stupid threesome that wasn’t my idea. How should I approach this?
Share Me with Strangers… Say What?!
Well it sounds like you heard something more and more women are as of lately. Cuckolding and hot wife lifestyles or at least sexual trysts are becoming more prevalent than ever before — mainly because it has finally reached mainstream media where before it was a behind closed doors kind of thing. It is no where near a huge majority or even minority of people doing this but plenty do believe me.
I may seem puzzling and shocking to hear this from your husband but the odds are he has felt this way for some time and finally felt good enough to tell you about it. BUT on another note this isn’t about him completely — you’re married so this involves both of you and for it to work both of you need to want this otherwise it’ll be a disaster.
So before you go any further at all, really take the time to talk it over, discuss the details about it and of course find out everything you can about this fantasy he has. Also do some personal soul searching and see what you think about it personally. Don’t do anything in a relationship that is one sided that involves sex — it has to be a mutually thing, I can’t stress that enough.
The more you communicate and learn about this fantasy he has where he wants to share you with strangers the better equipped you will be to make a real decision about whether this stays a bedroom fantasy or becomes real. I wish you the best!
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