Lately the word Cuckold has been popping up online, on TV and even in magazines. It seems as if everyone is into cuckolding but in reality most people are left wondering what a cuckold even is. Below I’m going to do my best to define it and explain what it means in current times.
Don’t worry you’re not alone if you’re clueless about the topic. It certainly shouldn’t be a surprise to anyone that most people do not know anything about the topic of cuckolding. Some men that could be considered one, don’t even realize it because they haven’t been exposed to the term either. So let’s get to it!
There are basically two definitions when it comes to the word cuckold; the historical definition and what it means currently in regards to the sexual fetish. Keep in mind, this word has been around since the 13th century. Needless to say times have changed a great deal.
Historically a cuckold is a man that has an unfaithful wife. He wouldn’t know a thing about the affairs taking place in most circumstance, although other people often would. Back in the day the term meant nothing more than that and had nothing to do with anything fetish or fantasy related.
There are some instances of course where the husband would know about his wife cheating and would stay in the relationship for appearances or because he was too weak to leave.
Even according to the dictionary the historical definition of a cuckold is:
A man whose wife is unfaithful.
However the modern day fetish related definition is much different although technically incorporates the old with the new in a way.
Modern Cuckold Definition
The modern era has brought in tons of changes in the ways we live and that means sexually as well. This is basically what has happened with the word cuckold — it has changed its meaning over time.
Nowadays a cuckold could be defined as men (married or not) that knowingly are in relationships with women that have sex with other men. Unlike the cucks of yesterday, these guys not only know about it but typically they are the ones trying to convince their girlfriend or wife to get into it.
Someone could also say that a cuckold is a man in a relationship with a woman that has sex with others, while the husband is present and watching. Many cuckolds enjoy seeing their wife hookup with another man. Often times they will take pics, videotape the action or get in on it too.
Tons of people think that this is the same as being swingers but it really is not. A cuckold is usually not allowed to sleep with other women, even though his spouse can.
Believe it or not many couples even pick the new partners together! The reason for this is because usually the cuckolding wife doesn’t want to lose her husband but rather she wants to stay with him and enjoy the sexual freedom the relationship provides. After all you can’t truly have a cuckold relationship if you’re single, although you probably could under some circumstances.
Nature of a Cuckold
A cuckold is a voyeur by nature and his fetish is typically always about seeing his wife pleasured in one form or another. He derives his pleasure from seeing hers. So it is much more about her personal preferences and desires than his because he simply wants to see her enjoying herself. That’s not all! Cuckolds come in tons of varieties ranging from bisexual guys to men that love humiliation.
This is why a certain stereotype can’t be placed on the cuckold because the only things they desire are watching their wives with other men, hearing about the fun they have and seeing them being brought pleasure by someone other than themselves.
If you’re in a cuckold relationship or fantasize about it, please your comments and experiences in the comments below. Everyone wants to hear them!