When hearing someone mention “hotwife” and couples “hotwifing” you’re probably not alone in your confusion. Most would jump to believing it just means a guy is lucky enough to be married to a very attractive wife but think again. While it certainly could mean that, it’s not always the case anymore.
What is a Hotwife?
A hotwife is a woman married to a man that not only approves of her having sexual trysts with other men but encourages it as well. Quite the difference from the “hot wife” references everyone is used to but it’s the truth.
These women are not your typical swingers, instead they enjoy knowing their husband is staying completely faithful while they get to enjoy other partners. More often than not their hubby will watch and possibly even join in on the fun as well. Unlike swinging, hotwifing is a newer trend that has been gaining momentum over the past several years.
Hot Wife vs “Hotwife”
A hot wife is just that; an attractive married woman that has absolutely nothing to do with the term “hotwife” or the lifestyle that comes along with it. So don’t go all crazy the first time you hear it said because you never know which form of it someone is using, unless you see the spelling.
Is Hotwifing for You?
Deciding whether or not you’re ready to get into the hotwifing scene is a huge decision. This is something that both parties in a relationship must agree upon or it is just cheating — which has no place in the world of hot wives, at least 98 percent of the time.
Historically speaking a man married to a woman that cheats on him is a cuckold, not a guy involved in hotwifing. However even that isn’t always the case when it comes to cuckolding either. Things sure do change a lot! Anyway, back to the topic at hand.
In contrast a hotwife refers to a married woman who often has sexual relations with different men, with the approval of her husband, according to wikipedia.
Whether or not you want to become a hotwife really boils down to whether you get off on the idea of having sex or fooling around with men besides your hubby. Think about all the stuff that goes into hooking up with someone and see what stuff you like and don’t like about it.
Not only will that help you determine if this is up to you but can also help you determine what rules you’d like to implement, if actually seems like it could become a reality for you. For example some wives won’t allow kissing or going down on them.
Most women that are contemplating a dip into the waters of being shared with other men, do so because their husband has brought up the idea to them. Unfortunately for those of you not in that situation, you’ll have to be the one to bring it up to your husband. Make sure to feel him out but I’m sure most women will already know if their guy seems like the type who might be open to new ideas.
Basically if you love the idea of hooking up with other guys, while your husband watches and/or joins in on the fun, then becoming a hotwife might be for you after all, so long as your man is into it as well.
a woman who has s3x with a man can experience hormonal oxytocin rush and emotional bonds that bind her to that man, if he is is attractive to her. This is the danger in “hot-wife-ing”. The hubby may enjoy seeing her get fuqued. But she may be falling into deep attraction for her bull, BF or whomever the random male is her cuck BF brought to her or she chose. Women often bind mentally\emotionally to the men that fuq them. This is the hazard in swinging and 3-ways. You will often lose your wife, emotionally, if you are the cuck. A “stag” is strong enough in his persona, to keep his woman. A weaker male, a blue-pilled simp, will lose his wife into the culture of swinging, hotwife and adultery.
My wife fell madly for a man from New Zealand. I let this happen. I should not have. I was ignorant. In my youth, I was carnally aroused by another man fuquing my Tina. I was shocked and aroused by her being emotionally aroused by another man. I watched them fuq. She fuqued him with passion she did not have for me. It was shocking and incredible. I let her spend afternoons in a swanky hotel with him, getting the daylights fuqued out of her by him. I got off on the idea of him pumping her full of semen and her being completely subdued by him. I am not the cuck that feels the need to be humiliated in sex acts. I find that gross. Instead, I just get-off on the idea that someone else validates the hotness of my wife and I don’t care if she fuqs other guys because I have had her so much, I don’t care. She is me. She just wants to experience attraction from other men. I can’t fault her for that. Tina is walking sex and needs more dick to validate herself and to satisfy that insatiable appetite for getting fuqued.