What makes a man desire to be a cuckold is the question that never seems to have an answer. So we thought why don’t we have a discussion about it right here and see what everyone’s thoughts are on the topic.
Of all of the guys I’ve known that have been into cuckolding or sharing their wife or whatever name you wish to put on it… They’ve all had their own unique reasons for enjoying the fantasy. So to start up this discussion, I’m going to tell you some of their reasons for wanting to be a cuckold and share their wives with other men.
The Cuckold’s Reasons
I’ll do a break down of each guy to make things easier to follow! Lets get things started!
Jeremy the Wife Watcher
Jeremy is a married man in his mid 30s from Chicago that loves the idea of sharing his wife with other men especially guys that are extremely well hung. After quite the conversation he broke down why he wanted to watch his wife.
For him it was all about her please and how much he loved his wife. He said that he wasn’t in denial about his size or the fact that he couldn’t ever last much longer than 3 or 4 minutes when it came to sex or even oral sex for that matter. From his perspective, his fantasy blossomed out of his desire to bring his wife as much pleasure as possible. He wanted another more than for her to have the best sex she possibly could even if that meant having sex with other men. Jeremy also added in that he has always been a bit of a voyeur and loved to watch her in the act but he wouldn’t join in on the fun until after the other man left.
Mark, a Cuckold Humiliation Addict
Now Mark on the other hand was an entirely different kind of a cuckold. He loved the idea of watching his wife, filming his wife, having threesomes, creampie cleaning and even verbal humiliation. Mark said he is definitely way more into the psychological aspects of it and when combined with seeing it all happen is almost too much to handle.
He admits that he didn’t even know about his desire to be a cuckold until after years in a committed relationship. One day he was watching some videos with his wife and a threesome scene popped up in the middle of it and from that point on he said he fantasized about sharing his wife with another man. When asked about the humiliation and why he loves that so much he just said that there was something extremely erotic about it especially in the presence of his wife’s lover but he wasn’t quite sure where it stemmed from other than his naturally submissive nature to women.
So What Does Make a Man a Cuckold?
When I say, a cuckold, I am referring to the modernized definition of it as in, any guy who desires to share, watch or have his significant other cheat on him. So what does make a man desire to be a cuckold?
Is it his lacking in the penis department? Well that can’t be because, Mark, for example provided me with picture proof that he was nearly 8 thick inches and his wife didn’t even want another man because she was sexually satisfied.
Maybe it’s a voyeuristic fetish mixed with a desire to be humiliated on some psychological level? It would be easy to say that if the humiliation factor popped up in all cuckold scenarios, but once again it doesn’t.
So what are your thoughts on why a man ends up wanting to be a cuckold or share his partner with other men? Let us know about your own experiences, thoughts and examples. We look forward to reading them all!
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