Here’s the thing, my husband recently told me he wants a threesome, only he wants it to be with another guy.
I wouldn’t have been so put off if he said with another woman, however my husband wants a threesome but with another guy!
This to me just seemed odd because why would he want that and not some other hot girl involved?
I must admit that even I’ve thought about that before but another guy? Do you think there is any way that he could be in the closet or in other words gay? I’d hate for that to be the case because we truly do make the perfect couple otherwise. Any advice, help, anything??
– Married and Worried in Atlanta
Hubby is Definitely Gay! Just Teasing.
If you mean gay as in happy then I’m sure he probably is but in reference to his sexual preferences — not so much. As a woman I completely get where you’re coming from because we naturally think all men want 100 women crawling all over them and plenty do but not all of them.
Your husband may even like the idea of a threesome with another woman but the idea of another man excites him more. In fact he may even worry that you will think he is gay!
Some people call this wife watching or cuckolding but in essence your man is a bit of a voyeur and obviously must trust you like crazy to even consider such a thing. On top of that he is very likely to find you extremely attractive, probably more than you even realize.
Don’t worry about the gay stuff, instead talk to him openly about this and take it from there but the odds are definitely stacked against him being gay.
The majority of men into this fantasy are not gay or even bisexual because the fantasy is primarily focused on the pleasure of the woman, only a small percent are into the more bisexual aspects and even then it’s often centered around humiliation rather than a sexual attraction to men.
If any of you have dealt with similar situations regarding sharing your wife or fantasies with your partner, please share your experiences in the comments below.
